What teenagers should take a lessons from their past.

Today, I am gonna write the whole experience about teenage mindset about grasping things from society, family and friends and what he learn and unlearn thing what he learned to from his past.

we are all most reactive human beings and we react on things, arguments, and opinions on the basis of a very small packet of knowledge and that indicates immaturity. Obviously, it can't come from at that age is very rare and it's ok because it's the process of learning things so just don't give a shit people.

at this age, testosterones are on peak and teenagers are very impulsive but in this, we miss the opportunity of taking a lesson from that argument or incident and they judge themselves on the people's opinion but they don't know, there are no nuances of their opinions and they struggled a lot for people validation which is not gonna matter at all in longterm and they left their individuality so my advice to all teenagers is always think and judge and react on the basis of data. Don't go with fascination and to make a cool because we all want to be better so need to understand the process of learning. after a lot of years, you will realize whatever we were doing in college that all are pointless because we didn't learn anything that can make us better human beings and obviously. it is known as the experience of that age which converts with time in maturity because this time you have a dataset to figure out things where we were wrong. lots of people regret their past and abuse their things but they should not because they don't even realize these mistakes are lessons are gonna keep with them in life ahead so it depends upon how you perceive things and what focus on if you are focused on learning with this trial and error method then I am sure you will become conquerer but on the country,.if you are blaming yourself for them and victim mentality will give you just people sympathy.

keep in mind, we humans are living contradiction and we make millions of mistakes but what really matters how we face it. Just change your perspective and keep improving yourself with your surroundings, people, and friends. you will be a better version of yourself to understand how complicated humans are by just an observation.

Summed up like this: 

1.Embrace hardships.

2. People's validation is bullshit.

3. Take feasible and practical risks in your 20's and explore as much as can.

4. Just be humble and focus on process, not results.

5. Do it for the contentment of work and everything like money, attention is the byproduct of your work so don't forget the core values. and these things are false gods.

6. Add values and ethics in you life these things make you stronger internally.

"Thank you for reading this, it means a lot for me."

ps; let me know if you wanna add something I will be grateful

bcoz, I am willing to learn.